God created Adam and noticed that everything he made was good except for Adam, he was all alone. So God caused him to fall asleep and took out one of his ribs and created a helpmeet suitable for him. When Adam woke up he noticed Eve and called her woman because she was created from man, flesh of his flesh and bone of his bone. Since that day they were together, husband and wife – one.
When Adam was busy giving all the animals and plants names he noticed he was alone, there was nobody suitable for him. Adam was missing his helpmeet, maybe missing love. Genesis 2:20-25
How do you feel in your single life? Do you feel you are missing love? Are you waiting for your God ordained mate and stand still while waiting?
As you can see from the story of Adam, Adam was a very busy man. He was working hard for God, he was not sitting idle consuming himself with the thoughts of a wife. No Adam was working hard in fulfilling the task God had given him. Adam was obedient to God and God blessed Adam while Adam was fulfilling God’s will in his life.
Now don’t you think we should do the same? As Adam we should know the task God assigned to us and we should be working hard on fulfilling that task for God. If incase you don’t know your task it’s time to find out. Why do you need a companion if you don’t even know what you are supose to do for God?
Also note that Adam was close to God and was receiving love from God. Adam was placing God first in his life. God understood Adam’s desires especially because Adam had a close relationship with God.
When Adam finished his assigned tasks, it’s then that God looked at Adam and caused him to fall asleep and Eve was created.
Eve was sleeping after she was created and it was Adam who woke up finding Eve. Adam recognized Eve as his woman. Eve never went on a search for Adam, God brought them together.
Now if you are missing love it’s problably because your relationship with God is not where it needs to be. We should never want to fill up an empty space created for God with another person, God wants to be first in our lives. Outside of God love will not work as it supose to work because God is love and love comes from God. We love because God loves us first 1 John 4:19
The bible also says that we should love our neighbors as ourselves, we’ll do you love yourself? I’m not talking about pride and I’m not asking you how many men you can get, that has nothing to do with you loving yourself. Do YOU love yourself? You don’t know how? Well let’s look up God word on that.
1. Proverbs 19:8 – Whoever gets sense loves his own soul; he who keeps understanding will discover good.
2. 1 Timothy 4:12 – Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity.
3.Ephesians 5:29 – For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church
4. Romans 13:8-10 – Owe no one anything, except to love each other, for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. For the commandments, “You shall not commit adultery, You shall not murder, You shall not steal, You shall not covet,” and any other commandment, are summed up in this word: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.
5. Ephesians 2:10 – For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.
6. John 15:9 – As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love.
7. 1 John 2:3-5 – And by this we know that we have come to know him, if we keep his commandments. Whoever says “I know him” but does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him, but whoever keeps his word, in him truly the love of God is perfected. By this we may know that we are in him.
Well so do you love yourself? Above are just some verses, however the bible has more. If you do not love yourself in a healthy way, I suggest you pray about it and ask God for wisdom and bible verses you can use.
Do you know what you want in a partner? Yes?? You have a very long list with requirements? Well make sure you are everything yourselve on each item you have on that list. Have something to work on, or better to change the list a little? Pray about it, keep God involved have a very close relationship with him Because God truly cares.
What about standards? Do you have standards – yes? Are the standards you have in accordance with the bible? You don’t know what standards the bible has?
1. 1 Timothy 5:22 – Do not be hasty in the laying on of hands, nor take part in the sins of others; keep yourself pure.
2. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 – Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.
3. Proverbs 4:23 – Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.
4. 2 Corinthians 6:14-15 – Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? What accord has Christ with Belial? Or what portion does a believer share with an unbeliever?
5. 1 Corinthians 15:33 – Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.”
6. Mark 12:30 – and you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.’
7. Amos 3:3 – Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?
Again these are just some bible verses, however very important for you to follow and for you to use to see if a certain person could be the right one. For example a man trying to sleep with you before marriage is not the one for you. Yes you can become pregnant from him become his baby mama, run the house by cooking and cleaning and so on, however he is not the one – he is not your man. Your man will value you and know that a good wife is hard to find and more valuable than rubies (Proverbs 31:10) because he fears the Lord and because of his conection to God he recognizes when a woman is in God. He would not dare lead you the wrong way because remember you are flesh of his flesh and bone of his bone, created by God. God standards were created to protect us and not to hurt us, God’s ways are best.
There is this saying that states: go find your better halve 🤔🤔🤔 Uhm well so people only want a person to be halve good, halve ready, halve saved, halve anything? I think it’s pretty clear from the bible verses we just read that each person needs to be a whole person on their own in God. The bible says two people come together and become one it does not say two better halves come together and become one.
I believe that we should enjoy our single season. Get to know God, get to know yourself, get to know your purpose – work on becoming whole because once married it will bring a bunch of things of its own ( healthy own if married with the right person, the wrong person so much more trouble)
1 Corinthians 7:33-35 – But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife— and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband. I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.
You see being single is your time to spend with God and your time to spend time with people to show them the love of God. Do you still believe you miss love and that God has maybe forgotten you? Well look at below verses.
1. Romans 8:28 – And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.
John 3-16: For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
Enjoy the time God has you in, God knows what’s best for your life. Love God, love yourself and love others be busy carrying out the purpose God created you for and trust in God with all your heart and soul. Be blessed.
God loves you much❤️
Saludos Romy Ras
Different perspective of love. Nice
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Yes thank you for reading my blog
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Not only read but I learned from it
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Very nice, to God goes the glory. I’m really happy to hear you learned from it. May God bless you.
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Thanks
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Wow, so much wisdom. Thanks a lot for sharing. I got some understanding for how things are shaping up in my life currently.
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Thank you for reading my blog I really appreciate it. The glory goes to God, I had to learn this too and I’m glad God took the time to teach me. Jesus is amazing, when we ask for wisdom we receive it. I’m happy my blog helped you understand, may God bless you.
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Amen. God bless you too for learning and sharing.
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so much of knowledge and wisdom in one single blog? I like the portion where you mentioned about sleeping with a man, who is not worth you for marriage. How often we hear this today … spread your messages though your blogs. i appreciate all that you write and I am sure others too would expect the same from you
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Thank you I really appreciate your kind words. I can’t really boast about my blogs it’s all God he truly deserves the glory. Jesus is truly amazing and gives wisdom to whom asks. God is worthy to be praised.
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At such a young age … I wish all girls of this world had that kind of wisdom
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I like you blog
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Thank you I’m really happy you like it. Thank you for your kind words. It’s all God, I can do all thing through Christ who strengthens me. The praise goes to God.
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Sometimes God takes His rebellious children and turns their hearts toward Him as they experience the consequences of their rebellion. I agree for the most part that a virgin should not get involved with a man who doesn’t respect her and wants to engage in premarital sex. In my own experience I was divorced with no children. Long story but God did not allow me to have children with an abusive first husband who was not the one meant for me. When I did meet the man God meant for me we were both living in sin and we ended up with a baby. It took us a year and falling into extreme poverty and still committed to each other and our child before we turned repented and turned back to God. We both grew up in church, we both had been baptized and believed but had fallen into sexual sin. At the point we had no extra money the only thing we used has for was to attend church on Sunday morning. We spent our time reading the Bible aloud to each other and God convicted us that we were to be married. As soon as we made that decision, re-dedicated our lives God provided the necessary funds to get a ring, clean our suits, get the required blood tests and marriage license and with in a week of getting the unexpected and I budgeted money we were married by the pastor/elder and family friend of my husband’s family since he was a young child. It has been over 36 years now. Four grown kids with 7 grandkids and counting. Sometimes we are doing it all wrong with the right person and God, knowing us better than we know ourselves says, “Wake up and follow me, here have this to remind you whose you really are.” In our case it was “Here have a baby, I know you’ll do the right thing.”
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Beautiful story, yes God is a God who forgives and looks at people’s hearts something we can’t do. God also says that he who started a good work in you will complete it, as you said you both grew up in Church so he had already started the work in both of you. I would say that people always need to have a close relationship with God to understand his will for each persons life, only he knows best because he created us. I do believe he forgives the ones that are really sorry because we are human and all sin, however when we truly repent he will be there to help us back up. Thank you for sharing your story, may God bless you.
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May God shine his countenance upon you and bless you.
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Thank you very much, May God continue to bless you as well.
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This is a great post
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Thank you for reading my post, I’m happy you liked it. To God goes the glory, may God bless you.
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I follow it now
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Nice, thank you. Have a blessed day.
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you too
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may God bless you more
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Yes being alone is not always simple what i mis on this moment is a soulmaite
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I understand and no it’s not but with God we are never alone. Ask God to comfort you and give you patience. Have a blessed night
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Differently amazing 🙂
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Thank you for reading and your kind comment, may God bless you.
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It will be fun to read more from you 🙂
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Thank you, I really appreciate your support.
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A great post. So our search for Him continues…whether single or married doesn’t matter. You got to seek love of God through his representative here or from Him. Everyone should understand this and I will also try.
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Thank you for reading and your kind words. Yes God should be first always. May God bless you.
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I need His blessings
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I think we all do, the bible says seek you first the kingdom of God and do what God wants you to do then he will give you everything else you need. Matthew 6:33. We need Jesus every step of the way and he understands our weaknesses. Have a blessed day.
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Delighted to meet another person who lives and learns from the Bible. Thanks for your recent visit to my blog.
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You are welcome Carl, thank you for reading my blog and your nice comment, really nice.
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Very well written blog. You are truly gifted by God. What an amazing perspective on being single – direct and to the point.
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Thank you for your kind comment Olivia, I really appreciate that you read my blog and liked it. Yes all the glory goes to God, May God bless your footsteps.
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Yup, you clocked it. Well done, I’m impressed (not that my impress amounts to anything). Thorough. On the money. I know a man in a high place who was pleased before you wrote this, and couldn’t be more pleased now…..
I’m proud to know ya
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Thank yo for your comment and oohh your impress amounts to allot, thank you so much for your nice comment. All the praise goes to God because the wisdom comes from God only. Jesus is amazing and I’m happy people like my blogs, I hope that God can use them to touch people hearts. May God bless you abundantly. Very nice to know you as well 😊
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I can’t say enough. As you can see (from the comments), everyone loves it when they see a surrendered person in your situation, you inspire.
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Thank you 😊 that is really nice to hear. Have a blessed night.
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Great insight! I need this! Thanks 🙂
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Thank you for reading Pia, I am happy that it helped you. Thank you for letting me know, have a nice day.
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Amazing post.. you gave so much information in This single post.. Adam and eve story is one of my favourites.. Surely gods love is the best
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Thank you for reading and your super nice comment, I’m
Happy you liked it😊
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That is a great way to put that in words.
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Thank you for reading, I’m happy you like it. God deserves the glory, may God bless you.
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God always deserve glory and he always get the victory when you speak on him and his works.God is Great and he is Love.
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Yes he is great and his love best. You are right God always deserves the glory, thank you for sharing.
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Thank you and you are blessed always believe in yourself.Your a Great Motivator.
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Thank you 😊
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Just because man was created first doesn’t mean that he is superior to women.. That’s the biggest misconception we have for women…#RespectWomen
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Thank you for reading, so true thank you for sharing.
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Have a look at my blog too and like and follow me if you like my posts on my blog…with best regards Spandan
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This post is absolutely true since God created eve only for Adam since he was alone and he needs company that god understood well ..
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Yes God is amazing 😊, thank you for your comment.
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Welcome friend
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Reminds me of a blog that I posted about love. https://lifestepbaptistministries.wordpress.com/2017/01/20/how-deep-is-your-love/
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Thank you for reading my blog post, I will check it out.
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With my last partner a I thought all signs led to him being sent by God. He was NOT. Instead of being the leader God calls men to be to their partners he was more like an evil and manipulative dictator. I put God to the side to please him. Even though he believes in God he has no intention on following the bible and I found myself following him thinking that if I was Godly enough he’d change. Nope! I just ended up sinning right along with him. It is si important for us women to understand that our spouse should be someone who actively leads us to God and is more concerned with out relationship with God than our physical relationship with them. Thank you for this post.
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Yes you are so right, your story sound so similar to mine. We need to be careful, God is more worthy then anything. Thank you for reading and sharing your journey on this. May God bless you.
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I think it’s women’s nurturing ways that lead us to subconsciously think we can nuture a man into what God wants him to be. In reality he should be what God calls him to be before we even look in his direction. That’s something I struggled with before. You’re welcome. God bless you as well.
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Yes I feel you on that one I was the same. Praise the Lord for changing us and protecting us until he is ready to present us with his best for us. May God bless your journey 😊
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Well I’ve learned something new today. Thanks!👏
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😂 you are welcome, it’s always good to learn new things 😊 All the glory goes to Jesus, have a blessed day.
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