Have you ever asked yourself this question? Why do you love me Lord? Out of all people why me? What is it about me Lord, that makes you love me so much?
I asked God this today and I was not prepared for the amount of emotions this would bring. Tears did not just come down my face, NO tears flooded down my face. I felt so many emotions at ones and with it no understanding why God would choose me!!!
And then God started to explain to me why I had gone through so much hardship in my last relationship and life. Let me take you onto this journey of a story that exceeds any kind of love we have ever experienced.
When I woke up this morning things were different, I did not follow my usual routine of greeting God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit first thing and thanking him for this day, 5 minutes of gospel music, 15 minutes reading bible and a daily devotional and seasoning my time with God with prayer. No this morning I greeted God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit, then I read a daily devotional on an app I downloaded yesterday and then I continued preparing my kids for school. I remembered to pray in the car when we were doing bible study as usual every morning on our way to school/work. As I’m off today I decided to bring my kids to school and then go by the beach to spend time with God.
I sat in my car and at first not knowing what to pray, however then the Holy Spirit took over. I confessed my fear to God, a fear I have had for the past 2,5 years and has made me closed up towards any man that would even think of being interested in me.
For the past weeks my oldest daughter keeps telling me that this guy in church keeps watching me and passes by my side as much as possible. My daughter also pointed out to me that I show no interest and that she has asked herself why I reject the thought of even smiling with a man. She then continued with the question: if this is not me blocking any blessing God would want to sent my way? I thought about this and then just tucked it away with saying you must of read the signs wrong.
Then yesterday my 6 year old daughter nudged me and said mommy that man over there is watching you, needless to say the same man my oldest daughter has been telling me about all these weeks.
So today during my time with God I confessed to God that I’m scared of dating and getting married because I don’t want to fall into my old life where I would make men I was in relationship with an Idol and place God on the shelve, for reference when needed. I cried and I told God that I don’t ever want to place him on a shelve again but keep him as first love in my life. That I love and need God and that I’m scared that God would allow me to drift away again, like my old habit where I always left somebody before they could leave me. I told God that I would not want that with him, that I knew the Bible says that he would never leave us or forsake us and that I know his words are true but that I’m scared I would leave him and God allowing it would feel the same as him leaving me.
Deuteronomy 31:8 (NKJV) And the Lord, He is the One who goes before you. He will be with you, He will not leave you nor forsake you; do not fear nor be dismayed.”
I let God know that I’m scared of allowing somebody in my life as I’m not sure the old controlling Romy is gone, the Romy that would not trust a man, the Romy that would manipulate a man to do her will. And I let God know that I’m not sure if I would keep my priorities and responsibilities in order as I had failed to do so often in my past relationships…….. I cried as the sadness fludded my heart with all the grief and hurt I had caused to God, just thinking back on it made me feel so bad.
God then answered me and said: my princess pick up your bible and read: Isaiah 5:6 Which says: Isaiah 5:6 (KJV) And I will lay it waste: it shall not be pruned, nor digged; but there shall come up briers and thorns: I will also command the clouds that they rain no rain upon it.
And I understood nothing of what God was trying to say to me, I thought he was pointing out that he was going to cut me off, take away his protection and his blessings. I also sat there thinking how this could maybe be about my job, in which things are a little Rocky right now.
It’s amazing how good God truly knows us. I started to research the meaning of the verse and soon found out it should be read starting from verse 5:1. As I read the commentary on Isaiah 5:1-7 God spoke to me and showered me with his love. God brought me back to my last relationship 2,5 years ago with the father of my 2 kids and God showed me that in that relationship I had made this man my idol and had left God on the shelve, during this time God had not pruned me, had allowed thorns to grow and had taken away the rain from me. Well in a vineyard nothing can grow like this and this was exactly what happened in my life at that time. God had taken away the people that had always ministered to me and he had allowed me to let my own sinfull nature take over. I stopped going to church and God had taken away any of his blessings towards the fruits of the Spirit in my life. In short I was miserable and felt like waste, not much alive at all.
Reading Isaiah 5:1-6 made me discouraged for a little while, ugh the enemy sometimes knows how to do that, however God led me to continue read the explanation and I found joy when I read: However this is not the end of it, it’s for God to turn a situation around – how amazing is that? 😊😂
God then led me back to reading Isaiah 5:7 in my bible which says: (NKJV)For the vineyard of the Lord of hosts is the house of Israel, And the men of Judah are His pleasant plant. He looked for justice, but behold, oppression; For righteousness, but behold, a cry for help.
And the “BUT BEHOLD, A CRY FOR HELP” is what spoke to me so much, because that had been me in that relationship. I had cried for months to God to get my out of that relationship, to allign my heart with God’s heart. I then realized that God had never left me and that his plan for my life never changed. God changed his approach towards me when I had left his road -TO BRING ME RIGHT ON TRACK AGAIN, BACK ON HIS ROAD.
All the while when I thought that God had allowed me to move away from him, I did not move at all. To the contrary God had me right in the palm of his hands. God had changed his approach to bring me right back running towards his arms, that had been embracing me all this time eventhough I had left him – sitting on that shelve.
And I asked – why God? what is it about me that makes you love me so much? And God said: Romy it’s not about you, it’s about me. YOU ARE MY PRINCESS, MY DAUGHTER AND I LOVE YOU AS YOUR FATHER, I LOVE YOU SO SO MUCH AND THAT WILL NEVER STOP!
God continued and said: My princess you have no need to fear, stay close to me and I will make sure that I prune you, take away any thorn from your mits and I will make it rain on you to grow you into the woman I need you to be. Because I know that you will use this to write about it for my glory and for the advancement of my kingdom. The same thing I knew that if I would give you a verse you did not understand that you would study it – seek and you will find – AMEN!
Matthew 7:7-8 (NKJV) Keep Asking, Seeking, Knocking “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. 8 For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened.
I don’t know what the meaning of this guy in church (watching me) is, my daughter and her friend think that he is the one and that I’m his missing rib ( So romantic 😊). Well I don’t know about all of that, however I do know this for sure: that I gave my life to God and that his will is best no matter what his will may be. I thank God for his perfect will to be done in my life, for HIS glory and the advancement of HIS kingdom – praise the Lord Almighty.
I hope this may help somebody. As I have informed before this journey with God is AMAZING, I never knew we could fall so deeply in love and be completely filled to the rim with the love of Jesus. I wish I had given my life to God when I was young, nevertheless God is always right on time.
Let me ask you, would you like to have a relationship with God like this? YES???? Okay Praise the Lord. Let’s start with – Did you accept Jesus as your Lord and Saviour in your life? Let me tell you since I did life has been an amazing Journey – not easy but surely the best ever. Want to accept Jesus but don’t know how? Write me, I would be happy to pray with you. Savedandblessed.blog.romy@gmail.com
This is only one of my many stories where God’s love is so vibrant and so true. Feel free to read any of my stories – which matter of fact are truths of my life, not always easy to share but nothing short from real.
Remember God loves you much❤️
Saludos, Romy Ras
Walk in Faith, Love life!
YES! Together we can make your passion, your vision, directing your desires into purpose.
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Dear Sister for sharing this!
It’s not only your journey with God that is amazing, but you yourself, as one of God’s princesses are amazing!
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Thank you Lennart, I really appreciate your kind words, may God bless you.
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Wow…this brought so much joy, delightment to my heart. It’s amazing how God knows us but most importantly how he loves us. I am deeply touched by your story Romy and I pray God lifts and strengthens you more. Whoever He will put on your way will be just what you need and you donot have to worry about your past for it is wiped, forgiven and erased. All things are made new in God’s image and likeness. God bless you my sister and thank you so much for this message.
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Hi Sammy, thank you for your encouragement 😊 how are you doing?
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I’m pushing though dear…your words helped me alot today. Hope you are doing good too
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I’m happy God used my post to help you, may he bless your journey.
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I ask myself this all the time!!! God loves us so much. Great post 😊
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Thank you for reading and your comment I appreciate it.
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Yes praise the Lord for loving us. Thank you for reading 😊
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Thank you very much for sharing this blog. Is so beautiful !
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You are welcome, thank you for reading my blog 😊
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Thank you for your testimony of God’s goodness and what he is teaching you!
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Good morning Belle, you are welcome. To God goes the glory. Thank you for reading my posts and your continues support, I really appreciate it.
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A wonderful revelation….like Ruth in the bible, I hope you will find your “Boaz” 🙂
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Hi Hunt, thank you for your kind words. I really appreciate your support on my writing, thank you
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I love your uplifting words. We learn and grow from Him each day. ❤️
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Thank you for reading my post Ipuna. All the glory goes to God 😊 have a blessed day.
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Bringing Jesus into the equation is so simple. Making a difficult situation easy to manage. However. When you and I don’t ask questions we know we are on the narrow pathway that leads to heaven. How do we know the answer to this question? Jesus tells us! God bless.
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Thank you for reading my blog post and your comment, may God bless you.
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Wow! What a beautiful story of how you overcame hurdles in your life and have found God’s love through it all. Your story has truly inspired me and it gave me comfort knowing that God still loves us. This is a must read story for those who need God’s love in their daily lives. May the Lord God bless you in all you do and keep up the great work! 🙂
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Hi, yes God is truly amazing and building a relationship with God is so vital and there is nothing like it once we truly decide God is and always should be our number 1. I’m happy God allowed me to learn this. Thank you for reading my blog and your kind words. May God bless you.
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Good day :). It was a pleasure reading your blog today and I agree 100% that by building a relationship is very important in this world. Thank you and likewise 🙂
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Thank you, may God bless you.
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Your welcome and and thank you :).
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I have doubts and worries but I talk to God daily and I trust in His love. ❤
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Hi, yes keep trusting God, he knows what he is doing and what’s best for you. May you have a blessed day.
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Thank you
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You are welcome, have a blessed day.
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I like the scripture God gave you, I like the thought about how He reshaped your path. It’s interesting when people are constantly posting about karma. And yet this scripture shows that when we become selfish and thorned, He like a gentleman always backs off like anyone with respect within intimacy.
Thank you for sharing.. when I met my husband he had the same fire burning for Jesus as I did. I knew that His spirit was motivated to seek the will of God for his life because we were the same. And I knew he had experienced a closeness with Christ like me. Because, Real knows real! : )
They say run to God look to your right, whoever is next to you, he might be the one..
Not trying to inject myself, just know the advice that helped me at this stage.
Whoever you’re new relationship is with it will be different because it is founded on a Godly foundation! : )
Just a hoot hoot for my hubby, and for men! They are worth it 🙂 my husband is good to me better than I deserve so best of luck, finding the one! 🙂
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Good evening, thank you for your reply. No I don’t believe in karma, God is love and love always wants the best. Thank you, I will start to look at my right 😉 I’m happy you found your one, it gives hope and I agree men are great, God is simply amazing. May you have
A blessed night 😊
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You as well 🙂 I don’t believe in karma but to those that do, from experience. This kind of explains the whole ‘universe drawing back’ feeling from making wrong or selfish decisions..
And of course he forgives all, has long patience and grace, like you said.. wants the best for our lives!! 🙂
God bless u! 🙂 Praying for your main man Roma :)🙏💕
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😂 thank you 😊
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Hi Romy, your testimony is inspiring. I can feel every word written. You are an instrument of God for sharing your experience. I’m inspired to write more as well as you do. God is always with you. “She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.” Proverbs 31:26 God bless you and your 3 lovely kids 🙂
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Good evening, thank you for your kind words and sharing proverbs 31:26 I like that verse very much. To God goes the glory 😊
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Read my blog, which will help you find him. https://spiritualsails.wordpress.com/2017/05/27/first-blog-post/
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Beautiful!
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Thank you, saludos Romy http://savedandblesseduniversity.com
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This is encouraging for a young woman of God searching for her “Boaz” as well, but longing to hold such an intimate relationship with her first love, her Beloved.
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Thank you for reading and your nice comment. May you have a blessed day. Saludos Romy http://savedandblesseduniversity.com
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I love this very beautiful thank you so much!!!
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Thank you for reading, may you have a blessed day. Saludos Romy http://savedandblesseduniversity.com
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My, how many times have I been in that place!! One minute I’m so in love with God and He is my everything and the next moment I find myself smitten by a man and can’t remember who God is. He certainly has a way of getting our attention and helping us get back on track. When I finally did meet my husband, I made SURE not to do that again! Thank you for letting me know that I’m not the only woman that has ever made that mistake!
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Hi Tausha, no you are definitely not. I’m happy you learned from the experience as well. Jesus is amazing. Thank you for reading my blog, saludos Romy –
http://savedandblesseduniversity.com
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Great.
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Thank you. 😊
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All your stories that I have read so far have been very empowering… God is great…. Sometimes children can see things that we as adults, do not see
.. Children are God’s little gifts to us… Stay strong and stay blessed… Thanks for sharing your story.
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That is inspiring, thank you very much for your support. May God bless your day.
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Thank you.
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This is so nice, Romy. You know that point you’re wondering why GOD would chose to love you of everyone on earth, I can totally relate.
Thank you for being open, its encouraging to find out you’re not alone.
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Good afternoon, thank you for reading my blog. Yes God is amazing 😊
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HE created us with a purpose and one of the purpose HE created you, you’re fulfilling it now. Blessed be the name of the Lord.
This is also a great site full of inspiration ever known.
I hope to enlist your site soon on the channel of virtue via http://www.channelofvirtue.wordpress.com
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Thank you Bodjetstar, that is really nice feedback I appreciate it. Here is my website if you want to check it out: http://savedandblesseduniversity.com may you have a blessed day.
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You are welcome
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A website in the form of a news letter, well thought out. Nice job, may the Lord bless your efforts and dedication.
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Amen. Thanks
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