When I was a child my grandmother ( mothers side) taught me to pray every time I stayed over to sleep at her house. I was baptized Catholic as baby, I think just out of tradition because my parents were not Religious at all. Anyway that’s another story for another time. So to continue -my grandmother thaught me to pray: she would say that we should pray two our Father prayers and one Maria prayer ( Maria is never even mentioned in the bible to pray too, this is not from God words) Honestly I think I was just doing it to please my grandmother, I don’t believe I understood at that time what I was doing – really. I believe I was just going through the motion not fully understanding God.
It was not until years later, after I left my birth country and went to live on an Island ( my fathers birthplace) that I was explained a little about the bible. I actually received my first bible at the time from a co-worker who was a Christian at the time. This woman introduced me to following God, she asked me to come to church with her and she explained things of God to me. I was still very young at the time, I was 19 years old.
The second time i went to church with her and my Bofriend of then 3 years. I remember God telling me in church that I was pregnant, i recognized the way he spoke to me because it was the same way I had been spoken to when I was only 6 years old. However Because I still had my (woman cycle) going on as normal at the time I did not believe I was pregnant. I home tested 3 times and 3 times it came out positive, however I still did not believe so I went to the doctor. The doctor also confirmed that I was pregnant and she send me to the specialist. I was indeed pregnant and I was 7 weeks pregnant at the time of check up.
Life took its course with up and downs. I would speak to God occasionally when I could not bare the situation of life anymore and I would pray sometimes but I for sure was not fully committed to God. After a couple of months of my daughters birth I left her father. The relationship had always been Rocky and i had enough of it, I prayed to God who gave me strength to leave.
Years later I attended a 7th aventage church at times. I became vegetarian and I would keep the Sabath day and I would fast for God. It’s during this time that I learned allot about the Roman Catholic Church that surprised and scared me. I defenately did not want to be a Catholic anymore but it took me some time to change and become a Christian. Don’t get me wrong I don’t think someone’s religion is more important than someone’s heart towards God, I do believe however that everyone should pray about the religion they choose to take and make sure the religion follows the bible – God’s written word. I strongly believe that the Catholic Church does not follow God’s written words, but that will be a different blog someday.
To continue the story, I remained a vegetarian for two years however I did not continue to attend the 7th aventage church. I took what I learned from it and went on with life for a while, living the life. Going to parties, drinking and doing what I wanted. I did learn not to sleep with men and I’m happy I learned this at the time I was attending church. Because Of this I did not take a relationship that would of never worked anyway further. The man I was dating for a couple of months did want to sleep with me, however I definitely wanted to follow God’s way so I ended the relationship. He went and told everyone he had dumped me after sleeping with me and all I could do was laugh with the lie. That whole scenario thaught me so much and I just stayed calm , I was so happy That I followed God. The man in question did rectify his lie later on and announced in a public place that he had lied about me and he asked me for foregiveness for lying. You see God is good.
Eventually I got tired of the party life, such an empty life. The men always waiting to see when would be the best time to hook you in. I was never an one night stand kind of girl, I always thought I was to precious and worthy for such low acts. I would not look twice at a man even daring to ask me to occompany him in such a disrespectful act, no I would always walk away. I thank God for always guiding me even through my very wrong and prideful self. God’s love for us is truly amazing. God never left me And I decided later to attend a Christian Gospel church.
Me and my best friend at the time started to attend this church together. We changed are whole life’s and we were only interested in God based events. We would only look at christian tv chanchels and we would only listen to Christian music. The problem was though that we were not really building a relationship with God, I think now (and I could be wrong) that we were just being religious. Wanting the right thing however going about it the wrong way. But God’s love was so great during that time, there is nothing that could compare to it. I really believe that God meets you at the level you are at, we were definitely babies in Christ.
Life was different and good, but then one of my old boyfriends who I also had a really good friendship with showed back up in my life. First ofcourse as friends, he would go to church with me and not long after he would tell me he wanted to change his life. He reminded me that he had always said that once he was ready to change his life he would come look for me and so he did. I told him I wanted to stay Faithfull to God which included obstaning until marriage, he agreed. We dated and we got baptized as Christians together. I believed this was God sending me my husband but then soon after, it went all down hill from there.
It went good for the first 3 months but then we failed and I became pregnant, I had failed the comitment I wanted to keep for God. My life changed for the worse after that. I passed through much pain and heartache because I had choosen to love the wrong man and ooh I loved him so much. You see I thought: because my grandmother ( fathers side) had married a Haitian man when she was young that I wanted to follow her footsteps and marry a Haitian man as well. The only difference being between me and my grandmother was that I would occasionally pray to God eventhough I was falling further and further away being in that relationship . The day marriage became a subject I prayed to God and ended the prayer with: God however let your will be done and not mine, only let it come to pass if it is your will. Well after that every time when the subject of marriage came up we would end up in a big fight – not talking to each other for days. I’m really thankful for God’s protection over me because I see now that he is not the person for me, God kept me safe. I always thought that if someone said that they believed in God that they believed in the One true God, well I know now that we can’t trust someone’s saying we have to look at their actions it will eventually show their heart.
I have two kids now with him and I thank God for my kids. It’s not always easy but I would not want it any other way. I left him two years ago and it broke my heart because I truly loved that man very much and 14 years of knowing someone is not easy to let go. Through the years we always remained friends as we had started out in our twenties. It was not easy and It took much prayer, struggle and crying. I have everything to thank God for. I had a choice to make, to stay in a relationship and continue to sin against God or to choose for God and walk away and loose the friendship as well because he did not want to break up. I’m happy I choose God, I’m happy God held my hand every step of the way.
It was not easy and I don’t want to make anyone believe that choosing the way of God will be easy, it’s not always easy in the beginning. Sometimes we have to let go of what we think we love so much, this sometimes also means confronting your fears. One of my fears was to stay alone, I always wanted a man next to me just not to be alone. God showed me that this is not the right attitude and not the way. When I cried out to God to get me out of that relationship it was hard because it was like the more I wanted to get away the harder I was being pulled in. It really felt like a struggle to get out, it was hard. Because I never wanted to be alone I also prayed to God and asked him to keep my heart closed for all men that he does not have for me. That was the best prayer I prayed because God started to break down my old habits and I started to look at life differently. Before I just wanted to get married and live happy ever after, now I only want it if it is send by God himself. I have been single for almost two years now and I don’t look at it as something bad anymore. Do I still want to be married someday? Ooh yes I would love that but only in the way of the Lord and if it’s his will, it’s not a must anymore.
If I look back at my life and I can tell you of things I do different now, I can deffinately tell you that I now talk to God very often. I don’t wait anymore until I’m in church or until before I go to sleep. No I talk to God at all times now. I do pray in the mornings and at night but I don’t limit my talking to God to only those times. No i talk to him on the way to work, or when I get an assignment I don’t understand or when my kids work on my nerves 😁 ( it happens, sorry) when I need to go to an important meeting, or when I need to send an important email, when somebody comes to me for encouragement or comfort and I don’t know how to give it, I pray in myself to God or when I’m weak or angry or happy and so on.
You see God wants to have a relationship with us and a relationship involves allot of communication. I want God to be part of ALL my life not some assigned minutes during my day. I also ask God to give me the passion and want to keep him in my life. Because the second thing I did wrong in my early years was that i tried to do it all on my own, well the bible tells us that our spirit is willing but our flesh is weak. We can’t do this on our own we don’t have to, Jesus is here to help us – Jesus loves us so much and knows we can’t do it on our own.
No matter how hard the way of God may feel or seem at the time I can tell you that God’s way is worth it. It’s worth every difficulty you have to pass through, there is nothing greater than to have God in your life. If I had to do it again I would choose God again just sooner this time. The struggle to get back to God is not harder then the struggle you live everyday without God, it just seems that way because you have to choose a different road and do away with old Habbits. Every step you take for God is worth like nothing else in this world, trust him – take Jesus hand and never let Go. Ask God for a renewed heart and a passion to serve him, God will be there the same he was and is here for me every day.
I hope God can use my story to speak to people’s hearts, I’m a very private person and I don’t like to share my life with just anybody. However its not about me it’s about God and it’s about all of you who might need to read this story, may God bless you.
God loves you much❤️
Saludos Romy Ras
Great Post!
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Thank you, may God bless you.
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Great story.
Though I am not religious, I always respect people who believe in something good.
Again, great story.
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Thank you for reading my blog and your kind comment. I’m happy you liked my blog. Have a nice day.
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Likewise, SavedandBlessed.
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Ooooooh, Thanks for sharing! God bless you.
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You are welcome, thank you for reading. May God bless you.
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Oooh, thanks for sharing, God is faithful. Bless you
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Yes God is, thank you for you comment. Have a blessed day.
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What an inspiring story…thank you for sharing ❤ 🙂
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Thank you for reading I’m happy you liked it. Have a blessed day.
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Great story.
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Thank you Herman, yes God is amazing. Thank you for reading my blog. May God bless you.
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God bless you too dear.
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Thank you Herman
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Wat een leuk blog heb je hier…genoeg te lezen 🙂
Groetjes en dank voor je bezoek aan mijn blogjes
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Dank Je wel voor het lezen en Je Leuke reply. Jou blogs zijn ook leuk. Groetjes
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Thanks so much for sharing with us 🙂
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You are welcome Jami, thank you for reading my blog. God deserves all the glory. Have a blessed day.
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What a dynamic blog post you created. Very powerful message excellent work. I love it.
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Thank you for reading my blog I’m happy you liked it. God is amazing and he deserves the praise for my writing. May God bless you.
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Thank you God bless you to.
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God bless you to.
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Your story is just one of the millions of stories where the Lord as brought you through and you can see Him clearly. I love the scripture that says “I will never leave you or forsake you”. God bless and keep you.
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Yes I love that verse as well, it is so true. Thank you for reading my blog, the writing all comes from God and God only deserves the praise. May God bless you as well.
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God’s grace and mercy: I love stories that illustrate this. Sounds like He’s transforming you as He promises He will with each of his children. Blessings.
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Yes God’s grace and mercy is amazing. Thank you for reading my blog and your nice comment. I’m happy you like my blog writing, the praise goes to God. Yes I sure hope God is, I need allot of transforming 😊. May God bless you as well.
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Great story.
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Thank you for reading, I’m happy you liked it.
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Your blog is so spiritual. You emit such great good vibes. 🙂
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Thank you for reading my blog, I’m happy you like it. God deserves all praise as all wisdom comes from him. May God guide your footsteps.
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Aww. This is so thoughtful. Also, i would love if you’d just throw up your good vibes by sharing your views on my blog.
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Great post.Thanks for following my blog
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I wish you well in your journey in faith. It is a never ending process and the joy exists all along the way. Thanks for your recent visit to my blog.
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Thank you Carl, I wish you well in your journey as well. Yes God is the best way to follow, thank you once more. Have a blessed evening.
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This is so inspiring. Thank you
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Thank you for your nice comment, I’m happy you liked my post. God deserves the praise. Have a blessed day.
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What a beautiful and encouraging testimony. Thank you so much for sharing. May God bless you for your words shared here.
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Thank you for reading my blog and your kind words, I really appreciate it. May God bless you as well.
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The mantra in our Sunday School class is: Love God, Know God, God Does Things. But like you point out it is hard to love someone, anyone without first knowing them. Nice work!
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Yes true, it is hard to love someone when you don’t know them, nicely put. Thank you. May God bless you.
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You’re right, following God isn’t always easy. In fact, when people say it is I ask them to find me just ONE scripture that says it is….they can’t. Instead I can find a lot that talk about the fight it takes. Good post.
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True following God is not always easy but so worth it. We learn so much from God and his love surpasses all. He is strong when we are weak, Jesus is amazing. Have a blessed day.
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I loved the part about leaving your husband of 14 and also not letting men to come closer than close to you.
You indeed are saved and blessed!
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Thank you Berni, God is amazing everything comes from God.
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You’ve set a very good example.
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😊thank you for reading Berni.
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You’ve set a very good example for other women to follow.
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Thank you Berni
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I just binge read a lot of your blog and I love it. Your story really got to my heart. I’m so sorry you’ve had to walk through the heart break you have had, but at the same time I loved reading about your passion for Jesus through it all. God bless your heart 🙂 seriously, it sounds like your heart is really chasing after God and I think that is amazing. Hope you have a great evening!!
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Thank you for reading my blog Joel, well I have made many missteps as well and I often times feel my heart is not where it should be with God. I’m definitely not perfect 😊 thank you for your super nice comment. I did not realize that my stories would actually have an impact on people, God is amazing and deserves all the glory. I would be nothing without God. I wish you a wonderful and blessed day.
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I’m right there with you, I’ve made my mistakes too, but thankfully God is so graceful and forgiving and loving to us! Hope you have a wonderful day too!!
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😊 yes thank God he is so graceful. May God bless you.
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God bless you too sister!! 🙂 hope you’re having a great day!
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Hello
Thank you for opening up to the WordPress community and posting about your journey, I enjoyed the following:
“Life took its course with up and downs. I would speak to God occasionally when I could not bare the situation of life anymore and I would pray sometimes but I for sure was not fully committed to God. After a couple of months of my daughters birth I left her father. The relationship had always been Rocky and i had enough of it, I prayed to God who gave me strength to leave”
Let’s connect?
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Kind regards
Greta
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Hi Greta, thAnk you for reading And your supper kind comment. I would love to connect, may God bless your day.
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